Wow sue, you suffer from the same issue most women do. You love your identification with being a victim so much due to it's empowering feel that you belittle others that suffer because you think that to aknowledge them would take away from women's Victim ID. Sad. This doesn't take into account psychological and emotional violence, but most men are demons and not human so that is irrelevant. Of course most social sciences are so Feminized it doesn't matter, there is no objectivity.